How will I Find Love?

When we were little, we always had the notion that when we grow older, we find our one true love and happily ever after. The fairy tales would always stop at that. However, in our times today, the rate of divorce and failed relationships has steadily increased. Most people would also say that it is difficult to find love. Many would go as far as to say, “You can never find your true love.”

It doesn’t have to be this way. 

Love seems hard to find because it is mostly complicated by the beliefs imprinted by society. We end up having unrealistic expectations of what “true love” is. However, finding love need not be that difficult. 

Know and release your limiting beliefs

To start attracting the person you will spend the rest of your life with, you need to work on yourself first. Each person is caped with limiting beliefs that are part of their subconscious. These beliefs are formed from our experiences and interactions ---- things  we heard from our parents, teachers or family members when we were still kids to adult life. Limiting beliefs about love can also come from a previous toxic relationship that we had. 

When you believe that you are not enough, that you don’t deserve love, then that is exactly what you get. These thoughts and messages that the universe hears, and because this is what you believe, this is what the universe will give. 

Start by reflecting deeply on yourself. What are your limiting beliefs? When did you start to believe them? Acknowledge these beliefs, forgive yourself for feeling this way, and then let go. 

Be clear with what you want

Do you know about the Law of Attraction? Do you know about manifestation? Did you know that your thoughts can be so powerful, that they can bring and attract the right person in your life? However, these won’t work if you remain unclear with what you want. 

As you search for a partner, give a lot of thought to specific traits that you would like to find. Be intentional with your actions. Decide what values are important to you. In this way, it would be easier for you to discover love. You never know, the love you’re looking for may just be around the corner. 

Don’t settle for anything less

Sometimes, in our desperate search for the one, we settle for lower standards and accept relationships that may not be perfect in the long run. People who are like this, often end up in toxic relationships that eventually lead to separation or divorce. Please don’t settle for anything less than you deserve. If you deeply reflect on being clear with what you want, then you can avoid being in this situation. 

Love yourself first

No one can pour from an empty cup. You cannot make space for others if you have no space for yourself.  If you don’t love yourself, how can you love somebody else? Work on yourself first. Get rid of your limiting beliefs. Heal from your past relationships. Being aware of your own problems or issues will help you handle future conflicts with your partner. 

If you want to attract a person who is positive, loving, caring, compassionate, and kind, you must first practice these on yourself! Be the person who you’d like to meet!

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